We breathe continually without making a conscious decision to breathe - it just happens. Does style just happen? Sometimes, and many people live in hope that today will be one of the days where style just happens to them and lets them connect to the people they want to be closer to - whether that's their partner, the colleagues they work with or the students they teach.
But the smart folk don't leave it to chance, they find out why certain outfits will work for them, why the choice of colours, lapels or cuts of clothes will help them to connect with specific people. Then they use that knowledge to make the connection.
Don't leave your non-verbal communication to chance. Know that the clothes you wear do make a massive difference to how folk relate to you. Use your appearance to make the connection.